Stop and think for a moment: what does success look like to you? It’sdifferent for everyone. For some, their success will be defined by their career. A corner office, a large staff working under you, perhapsrunning your own business. For some, it’s defined by personalaccomplishment. Getting married, having children, having a fulfillinghome life. Others define success based on how they are perceived by theoutside world: a large house, a nice car, a top-notch wardrobe. Thedefinition is subjective. We all have our own personal yardstick forsuccess. That yardstick is what motivates us.
How do we define success for ourselves?
At many different points throughout my life, I thought I knew exactly what I wanted from my life and exactly what success would be for me.But gradually, that definition always changed. It’s disheartening tocontinually enter phases of my life where I don’t know what I want to do professionally. But that’s okay! I’m only 26.
Our yardstick for success is constantly changing as we gain new lifeexperiences. As a college student or recent college grad, you shouldn’texpect to have your life planned out. Leave room for spontaneity androom to change your mind about what you want. Let your life lead you in new directions, new career paths, new relationships.
Even today I struggle to define what success looks like to me. I know I want to be a business owner and sole-entrepreneur. Though I expectthem to change immensely in the future, I hope to turn my blog and blogging business into a full-time job. I know I want to own a home and, years down the road,have children. Basically, my definition of success isn’t single-minded. I want to find balance and fulfillment in both my career and personallife.
Write down your goals.
I do this on my blog every month, as well as regularly in my blogging notebook. It allows me to remain accountable for my goals, as well ashopefully inspiring others to write their own goals down. This willallow other people to revel in your success too!
Celebrate every success.
Even the small ones! Getting a small recognition at work or going on a great first date might not mean you’ve accomplished everything in yourlife, but it’s certainly a small success. Celebrating those will makethe journey that much more fun. And really, it’s all about the journey.
Stop comparing yourself to others’ success.
Too often we define our happiness and success by that of those around us. We see someone near us who is doing well, and we start using their yardstick to measure ourselves. We deem ourselves unsuccessful because they have something we don’t.
As bloggers, we’ve often been told not to compare your beginning tosomeone else’s middle. This is advice we should carry over into everyfacet of our life. Don’t let someone else’s success define yours. Don’tlet someone else’s happiness define yours. Don’t let your yardstick oranyone else’s box you in or make you feel inferior.